Quran 6:31 Tafsir Ibn Kathir (while they will bear their burdens on their backs; and evil indeed are the burdens that they will bear!) Asbat said that As-Suddi said, “Upon entering his grave, every unjust person will meet a man with an ugly face, dark skin, awful odor, wearing dirty clothes, who will enter his grave with him. When the unjust person sees him, he will say, `How ugly is your face!’ He will reply, `So was your work, it was ugly.’ The unjust person will say, `How foul is the odor coming from you!’ He will reply, `Such was the case with your work, it stunk.’ The unjust person will say, `How dirty are your clothes!’ He will reply, `And your work too was dirty.’ The unjust person will ask, `Who are you’ He will reply, `I am your deeds.’ So he will remain with the unjust person in his grave, and when he is resurrected on the Day of Resurrection, his companion will say to him, `In the life of the world, I used to carry you because you followed desire and lust. Today, you carry me.’ So he will ride on the unjust person’s back and lead him until he enters the Fire.
Author: ishmaelabraham
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Problem of evil and Hadith: Tossing and turning in bed of a patient is jihad
عن الحارث عن علي عن النبي ﷺ أنين المريض تسبيحه وصياحه تهليله ونومه عبادة ونفسه صدقة وتقلبه قتال لعدو
The Prophet peace and blessings be upon him said: The pain and cries of a patient count as glorification and sanctification of God, his sleep is an act of worship, his breathing is an act of charity and his tossing and turning in bed is like fighting in the battlefield.
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Quran 2:143 and the middle way: Spartans and underemployment
I was introduced to spartans while studying FPGA design and I identified with it. I am also underemployed. My father chose to be underemployed and he returned from US after studying on a scholarship of business administration. Our faith community is described in our Scripture as the community of the middle way. Buddhism may preach the middle way but it verges on asceticism like Sufism and secular Buddhism tries to balance, but that balance is already built into orthodox Islam. In western history we can see both extremes of celibacy and sexual revolution, so learning about our faith can help western civilization to find the middle way. The extra free time offered by underemployment helps me in spiritual growth and reaching out to fellow humans like here 🙂
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-athletes-way/201210/underemployed-resilient-and-proud
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The longest stay of sinful Muslims in the Fire
منهم من يمكث فيها شهراً ثم يخرج منها، ومنهم من يمكث فيها سنة ثم يخرج منها
Some will stay for one month and then released from it, and some will stay for one year and then released from it
أطولهم فيها مكثاً بقدر الدنيا منذ يوم خلقت إلى أن تفنى
The longest stay of disobedient Muslims in the fire will be less than infinity and the equivalent of the time span between creation and annihilation of universe which is more than 13.8 billion years.
Tafsir Ibn Kathir
Surah Al-Hijr
Ayah 2 ( Quran 15:2)
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Islam and feminism: Message to a modernist Shia sister Nicole Correri
Ishmael Abraham For example, one aspect is that Khadijah, may God be pleased with her, died before the detailed injunctions of veiling and staying at home were revealed in Medina which was a legal and political phase of the missionary career. So, some might refer to the principle of abrogation. The best feminist example can be Aisha, may God be pleased with her, who was a scholar, but in Shia Islam, the monasticism of Fatimah, may God be pleased with her, is revered more. What should be done is to change the perception of western feminism in the minds of orthodox Muslims, both Sunni and Shia, that it is only about sexual revolution and hatred of men and God. Modern educated pious sisters can do that by educating brothers through sacred vocabulary. And, real life injustices against women should be addressed with empathy for the fact that according to Quran ‘humans are created weak’ so both men and women can behave in narcissistic ways. Dr Farhat Hashmi of Pakistan and Dr Munira Al-Qubaysi of Syria are female Sunni scholars who have emancipated and educated women by mastering tradition. Tayyaba Khanum Bukhari is a female Shia preacher in Pakistan. But none of these women have addressed western feminism which can preserve the traditional culture but not promote it beyond it’s historical geography. I am willing to work with any modern educated sister to humanize the treatment of Muslim women globally and to promote the message of Islam among modern feminists. Sister Nicole talked about gender roles but I think according to modern theories of attachment parenting, the role of housewife is best for spiritual growth and better spiritual upbringing of children. But still working women are a reality in even the orthodox community so I am open-minded to develop an intellectual framework to co-opt them spiritually. The sad state of Dr Afia is one example, how an orthodox Muslim woman failed to reconcile the two worldviews, so again, I am happy that at least someone is discussing this.
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How both Saudi Arabia and Iran are evil/taghut according to a Prophetic descendant?
Imam Jafar As-Sadiq peace be upon him said which means every flag-owner before the rise of Al-Qaim is Taghut(evil). So, both Saudi Arabia and Iran are Taghut.
محمد بن يعقوب: عن محمد بن يحيى، عن أحمد بن محمد، عن الحسين بن سعيد، عن حماد بن عيسى، عن الحسين بن المختار، عن أبي بصير، عن أبي عبد الله (عليه السلام)، قال: ” كل راية ترفع قبل قيام القائم فصاحبها طاغوت، يعبد من دون الله عز و جل “.
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Conversation with a Shia pharisee about ethical humour and making fun of orthodox Muslims
Hussain Murtaza I am really surprised to see someone like you share this. Did you see the entire clip? The video has been made by enemies of and it’s actually mocking established Islamic practices like Salah, prohibition of intermingling of sex etc, it mentions the name of Prophet Esa peace be upon him very inappropriately. People’s hatred of Zakir Naik is just a bait. It’s not about Zakir Naik. It’s a subtle thinly veiled poisonous injection.Ishmael Abraham His one of other videos are more blasphemous. I think we should allow secularists to make fun of us rather than Islam.Hussain Murtaza Ishmael Abraham Do you think they are making fun of “us” and not Islam, in this video? Did you see the whole video. Didn’t you see how he makes fun of Salah and inappropriately mentions Prophet Esa peace be upon him. Is this us or Islam that he’s mocking.Ishmael Abraham But these people were never raised with fiqh to understand the legal subtleties of commandments. I try to educate them.Hussain Murtaza Ishmael Abraham Educate them yes. But I don’t see anything positive or constructive about sharing this video on your wall.Ishmael Abraham Secularists think we do not have a sense of humour. I tell them we believe in ethical humour. But quality reduces quantity. I like Iranian movies.Hussain Murtaza Ishmael Abraham This is neither ethical nor religiously acceptable in my view. I make jokes all the time, and they make people laugh, but it’s never about religion.Ishmael Abraham I agree that it does not meet spiritual standards, but Quran also tells us to find common grounds (kalimatun sawaun). I may fail but I am trying to achieve that. Your feedback helps to improve trying.Hussain Murtaza I hate dislike yazid lover Zakir Naik as much as anyone, but this video is not about him.Frank G Hahn yoga is so good for the body mind and spirit, and we even bowed 300 times Islam styleHussain Murtaza More than 30 years of my life and I didn’t know till today that I am a “Shia Pharisee”. 🙂Ishmael Abraham They do not like pharisees but it is a positive word used for fuqaha or negative word used for being over-strict.
Hussain Murtaza Ishmael Abraham Yes I know. I am assuming you consider me to be over-strict. I am not Faqih by a long shot.Ishmael Abraham But you love ehtiyat like Fuqaha 🙂
Peter Bell Originally Persian Pharisees were given that name from the root word for separation from the world to a life of holiness before the Almighty. Pharisees have degenerated into narrow-minded legalists marked by a cold heart and a judgmental spirit, but from the beginning it was not so.Hussain Murtaza Peter Bell I am certainly not cold hearted. The other traits mentioned by you are subject to subjective interpretation 🙂Peter Bell Hussain Murtaza I am not charging you with anything, my friend! Just providing a historical footnote, because the prophet Jesus butted heads with Pharisees on a daily basis, and the reason seems to be that they had lost their original vision and purpose and descended into religious control and manipulation, which we know that God hates. If you are identifying as a Shia Pharisee — which even mystifies our old nemesis Thomas Morgan, then that may be a very good thing, my friend!
Hussain Murtaza Peter Bell I was talking in a lighter mode. I know you didn’t mean anything negative.
Peter Bell I do appreciate your warm sense of humor! If it helps any, I am a recovering Pharisee too, though I don’t know much about the Shia part. But trying to work hard enough to earn the favor of God is a curse and a plague that many of us in the Abrahamic traditions find ourselves weighed down with. Here is a hint: it never will work, so we just need to cast ourselves on His sovereign mercy. All peace and blessing to you!Ishmael Abraham I think Eastern traditional culture suffers from phariseeism, but modern western culture suffers from antinomianism more. Modern West needs God-fearing pharisees.
Peter Bell Ishmael Abraham Well, yes, we do suffer greatly from antinomianism. Agreed. But after much research I have not found phariseeism to be the answer. What’s wrong with antinomianism is not specifically its freedom from the law, but its lack of the sustaining power of grace (a thousand times more motivating and effective than fear of the law) to replace the letter of the law. The answer to antinomianism is grace, which empowers us to fulfill the law without legalism. The answer to phariseeism is grace, which empowers us to fulfill the law without legalism. Blessings and peace to you!Ishmael Abraham Along with grace, a knowledge of commandments is also necessary which is also a part of grace.
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Islam is the middle path between monasticism and phariseeism
“Sometimes the Bible in the hand of one man is worse than a whisky bottle in the hand of (another)… There are just some kind of men who — who’re so busy worrying about the next world they’ve never learned to live in this one, and you can look down the street and see the results.” ― Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird
Islam teaches that one should balance between an ignorant worshiper and non-practicing scholar. One is the heresy of monasticism and the other is heresy of pharisees. The middle path is called sirat al mustaqim the straight path to God. -
Dialogue with a female trinitarian secular Christian: Is Petra the former Qiblah?
Ishmael Abraham Quran says that the propaganda of enemies of Islam will always backfire (la yahiqul makrus sayyiu illa biahlihi ). Abdullah Sameer Thanks for helping me to educate more semi-educated critics of Islam.Peace on truth seekers. If you consider yourself a humanist like secularists claim, I would request you to add me for a richer dialogue.
Anja Jovic accepted your request.As for the Ummayad were the traditionalists, praying towards Petra, while the Abbasid were the reformers, changing qiblas to Mecca. I strongly urge you to at least watch the video from 1h 03 minutes for a few minutes to understand the disputeDone iftar. After modernity, there is a lot of communication gap. I try to bridge that for a peaceful Middle East.🙂Umayyads were very cruel and semi-Godless people, so it makes sense that they did not care much about accurate direction. The main researcher is a Christian and they are always jealous of Ishmael and Hagar and the city they built.Now this is one perspective of the dispute. The Abbasids of Kufr (the city) majored in driving out the Ummayads from the middle east and consequently changed the directions of the qiblas. If the Ummayads did not care about the direction as you say, how come all their qiblas are clearly directed at Petra? And if it was so clear that only Mecca was the correct direction, how come 1. Mecca is only named one time specifically in the quran, 2. doesnt fulfill the descriptions of the quran and 3. all other, non-involved muslim regions had their qiblas directed towards Petra, but changed them to go directly in between Petra and Mecca later to avoid being drawn into the conflict?So, you think Abbasids wre wrong and Umayyads right? I hate both because they killed Prophetic descendants both of themThis isn’t about either one of them being wrong, but rather, the truth. This is so important for all muslims in the world since they want to follow the quran and their prophet completely. The abbasids had an interest in changing the birth city of islam from petra to mecca, whilst mohammed and the khalifs did pray to petra. The direction matters clearly and also, do not forget hajj and similiarIt would not matter iif it wasnt for the significance in the islamic religion itselfand that we have indeed the ability to proof this (and it can be proven by anyone with a brain, this is not depending on who is who), why should we not? Allah also enabled thisWhat was the motive of Abassids? Umayyads were distant relatives of Prophet(p) while Abbassids were nearer relatives of Prophet(p)The dispute between them was the reason. While the Ummayads regarded Petra and the Kaaba there as the forbidden gathering place /haram al masjid and therefor claimed to be the rightly suceeding group, the Abbasid were claiming that title for themselves. They attacked Petra which was also called the ‘becca’ (due to the frequent earthquakes there that cost many people theirr lives) and threw huge stones with catapults at all old islamic worship places, destroying much, but not all of itThey made sure however to destroy the Kaaba completely and move whatever they could gather to Mecca to make sure everyone knows their claim is correct and their city was the city which was chosen by allahBut dispute among them was political in nature. They agreed about religion.The centre of Abassids was not Makkah but BaghdadNo, their religious outlooks differed a lot. Ummayads had a rather lenient outlook and considered Petra the holy city, Abbasids were stricter and considered Mecca to be correctthat is true, but they still held Mecca high as the holy citywhat is interesting is how easy the word becca (weeping) can be changed to mecca in arabic, though there was no reason to associate mecca with weepingIs Petra in Syria because Umayyads were based in DamascusBakkah means weeping because sinners weep thereBecause Abraham and Ishmael lived before IslamThey wept thereIshmael means God hears. They prayed and wept and God heard themAbraham prayed that O God make this city peaceful and fruitful.Even Bible mentions well of Hagar which is Zam Zam.But pilgrims bring fruits and there are many dates there like Ajwa. I have eaten thatChecking old routes of carvhans and having a look at the soil show how nobody travelled there because it was of no interest before the Abbasids build it up to become the holy cityThat is true, but the holy city is described to be full of trees and grassnothing like this was found thoughIt was not an economic site but a spiritual site so only pilgrims went there not businessmenit is also described as between 2 mountainish walls, with a river flowing in betweenMecca of today is not fulfilling thisThere is no Meccan river mentioned in Quran. I have read Quran a lot. Only well of Zam Zam.and what about the stones that circle the haram al masjid, how come all of them are gone whilst in Petra, theyre half destroyed, but still thereReally? Then how come it is said that mohammed used to walk up to the haram al masjid though the riverI never heard of a river. Maybe some pond.Are you talking about black stone?I’m talking about the haram al masjid. Going there, it is written that he went through the river and many wondered what river was meant since there is no river in MeccaCan you tell a Quranic verse or Hadith about that?Or you believed because a Christian said thatIll try to find it. And the description of Mecca to mohammeds times doesnt fit mecca eitherNot only was there no trees and grass, it was a big merchant city, not just for some pilgrimageAre those descriptions in Hadith?The city rose thousands of soldiers for warbut is not on any caravan route?`Nobody knew about it? Isn’t that oddand no, I read about that before, but did not pay closer attentionSoldiers can fight anywhere even in deserts and mountainsNaturally people care more about business and caravans than about God.Do you hate deserts and love cities like Newyork ?
Isn’t being closer to nature better than being closer to machines
That isn’t of relevance, is it? Once you say it is not normal that ‘a small city like Mecca is only visited by pilgrims’, yet when described as a huge city with soldiers, markets etc you say that goes for mecca as wellso which one is it?If it is indeed a merchant city as described in islamic narrative, how come it was on no merchant and carvan route?Where does Islam say that Makkah was centre of trade. There was only a small market called Ukaz.People went to Syria for trade like the caravan of Khadija went to Syria.Are you Turkish? I am PakistaniNo, I am not turkish and I’m collecting hadiths on it. It is a very interesting topic but I also just realised that there are muslims having an interest to not have this revealedIf it was true and becca was petra and not mecca it would (perhaps) make prayers invalid (though I doubt unknowingly praying wrong directions would be invalid), the pilgrimage would be invalid and most of all, saudis would lose a huge source of power and incomeTraditional Muslims are too sacred of sexual revolution that they refuse to engage with modernists even intellectually. However, I try to engage with all liberal even if they ban me from their groups.So from their side there is a huge interest to never aknowledge thisIf you are shia then please stay safe. I have heard of enough sources how shias are treated in sunni-majority countriesAnd muslims in the west engage in all kinds of sexual activities, yet would never engage in discussions …But Quran 2:115 states that your heart is more important than facing East or West.and 3. Why did the Abbasid saw a need to burn all documents from the Ummayah they could lay their hands onI love both Saudis and Jordanians. If Petra were Qiblah, I would not hate if my money goes to Jordanians. Even Jordanians do not hate that money does to Saudis. The Jordanian king is a Hashimi and his DNA is related to the Prophet(p).I did not say that direction is useless as it is a source of spiritual unity but even if the direction is within 45 degrees prayer will not be invalid due to human error. God says man in weak and can make errors.And it is not the religious aspect that matters in that fragment, just imagine if Saudis lost all the reputation, money and power to Jordan. They would do anything to prevent this fro happeningBut Jordanians are not secular and they do not hate Makkah. Jordanians are Sunnis in common with Saudis.They may fight for oil but no one hates pilgrimage.I like Yemeni Shia because they are moderate compared to Iranian extremist Shia.But even Yemenis love Makkah and pilgrimage.I am not saying they are not and I agree, Jordan is a place welcoming sects a lot more. But in that whole respect I find it curious as to how nobody is paying attention to the details and blindly accepting certain contradictions. If you look at how the quran is not chronological (means the sura order is not the same as they were revealed), the meccan/petran suras are a lot more peaceful than the medinan suras(especially sura 5 and 9).There is the theory that the Abbasids changed mohammeds suras into more violent ones whilst abusing the power of abrogation. I know you probably do not believe in that since quran is meant to be protected by allah, but I thought you might be curious about some parts people discussAnd I hope that you know not many are just historically curious. Not everyone who is not muslims has some sort of religious motive, in fact most are atheist or agnostic or simply irreligious. It is just that the islamic history is very rich and very interesting to analyse.According to Odin text research even the Medinan Surahs are less violent than Bible. No state can be established without use for force. Even secularism and democracy spread through sword of British and US colonialism. Being free from sexual revolution is necessary for spiritual peace.The old testament is incredibly violent I agree, whilst I dont think the gospel is. But could you explain to me what you mean with sexual revolution?sex outside marriage? Or something more?But Umayyads were more interested in conquest. Umayyads conquered Spain while Abassids built libraries in Baghdad.Sex outside marriage always existed, but I am more worried about its global propagation and publicity so that even pre-teens start watching porn.Gospel also says: I am not sent to bring peace on earth, but sword. In Islamic eschatology he will kill pseudo-Jewish Antichrist.So you mean that porn/sexual explicit pictures are available, that advertsiment is sexualised, etc? Anything else you would add?Yes he does, but this is metaphore if you read the context. He will use a sword to divide people into his followers and those not following him. It is not about killing anyone or teaching followers to kill anyone, eitherThis is enough. Even some secularists are against sexualising children.You seem Christian and I love Christ(p) and keep his commandments. Like him, I am circumcised and do not eat pork.To me surprise I fully agree with you. Though I think you use a very unfortunate word for your view. When you say sexual revolution, it sounds as if you are against 1. female rights and 2. people’s rights to choose an own sex-partner and 3. enjoy sex. Idk how much you know about it, but prior to the sexual revolution in the west, women had very little rights regarding their own body and it was seen as shameless if someone enjoyed sex (even within marriage). It was just an act to produce children and showing any form of joy was frowned upon strongly, making people feel guilty for procreating in the first place.The isa of islam is a completely different person from jesus from the bible. And I am not exactly a religious person and I would not call myself christian in that sense. Rather someone strongly inspired by JesusAccording to Ezekiel 18:20 no one can die for sins of another. We believe in animal sacrifice because son of Abraham(p) was replaced by a heavenly ram.It says no man can die for another, but jesus was no man in the christian perspective, he is the son of godYou are a secular Christian torn between Middle Eastern Yeshua and Greco-Roman polytheistic secularism.I am a secular individual inspired by jesus, not more not less. Religion belongs to the mind of the individual, not politics or the public roomBible has other sons of God as wellBut Jesus is called a King not a monk in BibleSimon the disciple believed in revolt against Caesar like Maccabees.It sure does, but that is what comes with translations. They dont accurately depict all variants. For example it depends which version of the greek word for son is used – if it is a literal son or a metaphorical sonand yep, he is indeed call King of Kings, but also the one to serve the lowest of lives and so onit all reflects his perspectiveEven metaphorical son isn’t anthropomorphism? Bible says God is not a man.and then Simon followed his political agenda. Jesus said to give what is due and more. Give God what is his and give Cesar what it isPay taxes, follow laws and so onNo, it depends on the context. Indeed, God is not man, but God can take the form/body of man for a purposeAnd ever since prophesised in the Torah, there was a Messiah to come and he would free the Jews of the burden of lawsHe submitted to Caesar because he was powerless. But in the second advent, God will empower him through Islam as a true King and then Jews cannot reject him, because they expect a king.But he still did not sin once(unlike man does)ofc, it is said he performed miracles etcbut the point is, despite all temptations, he did not sin and this is what no man can copyWasn’t Jesus harsh to his mother when they talked at the wedding?According to BibleHe ressurected people, gave blind men sight etc..in the gospel, it is multiple times said if he wanted, he would call all his father’s angels to come and wipe out everyone if he wantedBut that is not what he came forObviously up for criticismAs for Cesar and others, he never fought them and he urged all of his followed to not fight, but offer the other cheek (for another hit). Obviously almost nobody follows/can follow this.Many secular Christians are rejecting miracles, but we believe in miracles of Jesus(p) even more than many secular ChristiansI think you need to differ a lot there. When you say Christian, who do you adress? Many muslims say: You christians in the west…Who here is christian? They belong to a church, but almost nobody believed in god, much less in any religionWould you turn your cheek for a Muslim who wants to setup kingdom for Jesus(p).There is an underlying christian culture, inspired by chrisianity , but no christian belief for the vast majority. People are rather agnostic/atheist pagans, celebrating random mixed traditions(which makes it very questionable when muslim men marry women in europe since theyre not real christians at all)Middle Eastern Christians are better and I may marry a Middle Eastern nun if she liked.Nuns are catholic and ‘married to God’ (metaphorically) as in: They reject marriage and live only to pray and serve Godso I doubt a nun would marry youWhat if a gay Christian believes in trinity?Isn’t a Muslim better than trinitarian gay Christian?Also, what is interesting is, you cannot marry an actual christian. The logic is flawed, because a ‘real belieivng’ christian is not ‘allowed’ to marry a non-christian (no matter if female or male). If she does marry a non-christian, she is not a real believer. If she is a real-believer, she wont marry a muslim/jew etc. Now if you, as a muslim, marry a christian, she is not a real christian believer, either…You see where I am going, this is not logically working out (though most dont care and any christian marrying non-christians is not religious/agnostic/ etc)But she will be a real Abrahamite like Jesus and Mary.She may or may not, but she is not bound to christian rules then, meaning she may differ in many further aspects that normally christians and muslims have in common. She could believe in multiple Gods, multiple marriages and so on. It really depends on the individual then. As for your other question:The trinity is a weird outline for how God acts. Inherently, it is not wrong, God is influencing things as the father, the son and the holdy ghost. Theyre just three entities of the same, not three different gods. A person who is gay should, according to christian perspective, not act upon it, but it doesnt make him a worse person. Everyone sins in others ways. A gay guy is not worse than a person who lies about everything, steals from others, rapes women or whatever you can imagine.We try to love Jesus(p) too.A muslim is simply misguided since based on what the gospel says, he rejects the greatest gift god ever gave to mankind and all that in favor of a devilish belief. Im not sure as to how aware muslims are aware of this, but islam is devil’s religion according to the Bible since they deny Jesus’s death and position and therefor, leading all their followers to hellI do know that muslims have great respect towards jesus within the frame of islam, but really, the isa of islam and jesus of the bible have like almost nothing they share.We respect God more by saying God cannot die.That’s where views differ a LOT. Imagine this: God says- you all fall short in glory, you all sin and deserve hell as per justice. But I will send my son into a man’s body, let him endure everything you, as a man, endure and he will, sinnless, for your sins. All this, because I love you, my children (thats why God= the Father) that much, that I would sacrifice my son for you.Muslims say, God is so glorious, he can never have a human body and that body can never die, either.Now, up to the human which he believes or prefersBut it is interesting to see that their belief depends on mental state and personal preference a lot. I know former jews and christians who converted to islam and said: No, I only believe in a strong God, a god who can have a human body and that body dies, I reject thatAnd I know pagans and muslims converting to Christianity who say: Wow, God loves me so much, this pure love can only come from a real God!God is glorious but He also says in Quran that I am closer to you than your jugular vein. He is NEAR us but does not need to incarnate a non-biblical word.That’s why religion is so interesting, it reflects people’s personalities a lot. Not only the religion/sect itself, but also how scripture is interpreted.Can a strong God become an idol?Sure, if humans want to turn him into oneAs for reality, who am I to say what a god can or cannot do? But I know many religious people actually doing idol worshippingIslam compares love of God to a mother rather than father. Do you love your mother or father more.Rahman comes from rahm meaning womb.Rahman means Compassionate God.neither honestly, but I respect both and I am thankful towards what I was given and try my best to repay them my waysAnd that idea comes from Judaism, its in the torah how God’s love is equalled to a mothers love to her childThere are many cruel mothers in the worldIf you do not love them, then you do not love Jesus(p) enough.
That may be, not for me to judge. There is the emotional side which cannot be controlled, and there is the rational side which I can controlI dont choose whom I love with feelingsBut I can choose whom I show appreciation with deeds and wordsBut inside womb mothers cannot be cruel except secular women.Oh how so? Are your refering to abortion?Modern culture changes feelings towards parents.No, I would not say that. It changes the room given to act upon feelings. Within religious families, children are forced to take care of their parents, there is no choice about this, even if they hate them and their parents were horrible. But in more open societies, they are free to either help or leaveIt doesnt change the person’s motives though. I know religious people helping their elders, but cold as ice, simply because they have to. And I know atheists lovingly caring for their parents, because they love them.And even religious women can dislike their child..it is not as easy as generalisation seems it to be.Truth is more important than feelings. If truth makes you unhappy, the brave should dare to be unhappy. Even if I hated my parents, I would be kind to them even if I am cold. Like Abraham(p) was kind to his pagan father.Well, truth is subjective. For you that is the truth, for others whatever they believe is trueand forcing your own view on others is called a dictatorship. Just as you dont want to be forced to be atheist, many dont want to be forced to be muslim/christian/you name itSecularism forces you to be feel ashamed, stupid and backward about faith and commandments in modern world. If someone is dressed in a Middle Eastern way like Jesus(p) and bearded like him, he will be marginalized into self-censorship. So, it is a subtle dictatorship which is more spiritually destructive than visible dictatorship.Hm, I see where you are coming from. This is a development which took place in the more atheist part of the western world, but what about multi-religious , rather secular societiessingapore is a good example for thispeople are free to live their religion (or lack of it) without prejudice and hatespeech is severely punished.I personally consider it a very good example of how coexistence can work out well. And I am also against the marginalisation of faith or lack thereof – it should neither be made fun of nor attacked.And I also fully support the desexualisation of the public regarding advertisment and accesible porn etc.God bless your faith in challenging 21st century and may God make you a knight of Christ like MaryThank you very much, same and more on to you, salam 🙂I would be happier if you overcome your xenophobia to make me your virtual neighbour/fb friendAbdullah Sameer where we met refuses to add me and many times ignores dialogue. Adding by choice is a right but if I criticize an ideology, I should add them for better dialogue. -
To an ex Ismaili who is impressed by western enlightenment
Which enlightenment values? Sexual revolution and greedy industrial revolution.Abdullah Sameer Values of freedom of conscience, values of respect and tolerance for all regardless of gender, race, religion or sexuality.Ishmael Abraham Provided that secularists are in power, but if the pious are in power, then no respect for them, right? And, why should I respect an animal act called sex?If you are from Pakistan, founder of Pakistan, Jinnah was also Ismaili but he realised that Ismaili antinomianism leads to secularization so he switched to pronomian Ithna Ashari just like you initially switched to pronomian Sunni. You never experienced traditional enlightenment in the sense of Averroes or Ghazali so you felt inferiority complex vis-a-vis western machiavellian enlightenment which is only focused on improving efficiency rather than ethical progress . I feel more at home with ethical and spiritual enlightenment.Pakistan was secularized by sword of British colonialism so this person is a victim of internalized cultural colonialism like you.
