Stephanie believed like many Muslims that all those who die without Islam lose salvation which is not true according to nuanced scholars of Islam.
For losing salvation, it is necessary that you recognize the truth fully and still reject it due to pride. But most good people never have a chance to meet an intelligent and nuanced Scriptural scholar in their lives.
Most of the scholarly works which deal with philosophical doubts are in Arabic and untranslated.
Quran 24:33 talks about the consent of female servants.
I am an orthodox Muslim and I agree with her that both extremes of sexual revolution and anti-sexual negativity are not the solution.