The legality of women attending mosques

Your scholars cool with this? Think the Prophet would be cool with this? Not in a million years would he be. It is Wahhabi and Salafi scholars who have done this to our women. They should be ashamed of themselves. This is not Islam.
I visited perhaps my favorite place in Istanbul today, the Sultan Ayyoub Ansari mosque and shrine. From the first time I went there, with Imam Abdullah T. Antepli , and prayed a hauntingly beautiful fajr there, I’ve felt the deeply spiritual nature of the place. Today though, I came away feeling a bit destroyed instead of spiritually renewed.
It was early in the day, before dhur prayer. There was no prayer going on, but the imam was giving a lecture. There were maybe around 60 men in the main space, meaning it was mostly empty. I joined the few women who prayed in the back of the main hall, behind the small wooden rails where women usually pray. After a few minutes a man came and shooed at us, telling us to go upstairs. I ignored him the first time, then gave in on the third shooing and went up.
The stairs were narrow, cramped, steep, and circular. Treacherous really. I went up and there were about ten women on the balcony area. I started praying, asking God’s mercy and blessings for my family, friends, for Adnan’s hearing, for the health of loved ones, etc etc. Then I looked over and saw a woman emerge out of the stairway door. Except she wasn’t standing up. She was crawling.
She was the first of a number of very elderly women who crawled up those awful stairs on their hands and knees. One of them dragged her cane with her. They would get to the top, then have to be helped to stand up and wobble over to a place on the carpet to pray.
That pretty much broke me. I can’t remember the last time I wept, really wept. I had already been shooed away from a number of mosque doors that were the domain of men only, but this really broke me. What has happened to our men? Where is the mercy and compassion of our Prophet (saw)? How many would send their own elderly mothers up such stairs to sit away from…from what? From prayer?
Balconies and basements across the Muslim world are full of us, sisters, daughters, wives, and yes mothers – the same mothers who carried you for almost ten months, squeezed you out of her body through a passage that ripped her apart, raised you for decades. And in return you send her crawling through back doors, hidden in basements and balconies like something obscene, crawling on hands and knees just to get to a place to sit and worship their God, all so men can assert their control. Their control in a house and on a God that doesn’t belong only to them. God and His places of worship belong to us all. In a religion where both God and Prophet repeatedly emphasize the status of mothers and women, where our history is full of the voices and stories of women teachers and leaders, we are truly at a low.
Muslims face many challenges today, but there is nothing more soul crushing to be oppressed by those who are our brothers in faith. The same men who should be respecting, elevating, protecting us instead are primarily responsible for degrading, marginalizing, dehumanizing us. Muslim men cannot expect or deserve the respect of the world when they deny it to the women in their lives.
When Muslim women attend the mosque, they are not your property. They are guests of God. They are in His house. They are dressed respectfully, purified through ablution, with hearts full of prayers, difficulties, pain. While you spread out comfortably in spaces half-full, with access to all doors, windows, and light, our prayers are said in discomfort. But I bet our prayers carry more weight because we go through so much just to say them. God sees it all, and if these men think on the Day of Judgement they will not be held to account for what we have put up with, and put through, for centuries, they’ve got another thing coming.
I watched my daughter play with one of the elderly women, who gave her candies. Another, seeing me cry for quite a bit, came and gave me sweets and a gift of prayer beads. I felt better knowing that the unkindness of the men didn’t strip the kindness from the hearts of the women. But I have no hope that it will ever be any better in the future, I am certain that even my daughters will become the mothers shooed away into third-class citizen spaces.
I am sick and tired of it, but no matter what will not abdicate God or my faith to this. It is all an affront to our religion.
Shame, and lanaat, on the men who send their mothers crawling on their hands and knees.
Ishmael Abraham The people in Turkey are not Salafis but Hanafis like my parents, so this attitude has nothing to do with your school of thought.
Angelica Elsayeeda I didn’t say it did. What I said was this is not Islam no matter what school of thought. But make no mistake that it is the doctrine of the Wahhabi/Salafi deviants, who have used iol money to spread their cancerous ideology. Tell me 70 year old women crawled on their hands and knees up narrow stairs in our Prophet’s time. Tell me he would have said this was fine. You and I both know he wouldn’t. I hope every man who allowed their women to do this burns in hell. Islam came to save women from this kind of treatment. Not to spread it.
Ishmael Abraham I think Salafi scholars allow women to pray at mosque. The university at which I studied had some Salafi professors of engineering who made it sure that women are allowed in the mosque although the majority in Pakistan is Hanafi and they did not like that.
Angelica Elsayeeda Ishmael Abraham they also say women should cover all but one eyes. I call Bullshit on that.
Ishmael Abraham Many Hanafi scholars say that as well. I read a narration that Aisha may God be pleased with her covered her face when she saw Safwan bin Muattal may God be pleased with him when she was left behind in the desert. But I think uncovering face and hands is allowed. But taqwa is to cover like my mother does after she secluded herself in Itikaf meditation and worship one Ramadan.


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