I am an orthodox and orthoprax Muslim electrical engineer and technology educator from Pakistan, and this solved my life long dilemma of why I thought my parents were incompatible. Actually they lack the maturity to get over wrong assumptions about mutual personality types.
I was actually fulfilling a Prophetic Hadith today. Narrated Awf ibn Malik: The Holy Prophet (ﷺ) gave a decision between two men, and the one against whom the decision was given turned away and said: For me Allah sufficeth, and He is the best dispenser of affairs. The Holy Prophet (ﷺ) said: Allah, Most High, blames for falling short, but apply intelligence, and when the matter gets the better of you,(then) say; For me Allah sufficeth, and He is the best disposer of affairs.
In other words, tie the camel and then put your trust in Creator.